Thursday, April 19, 2007

Show Your Your Feelings Part 1

There are many ways to show you care about someone. The easiest way to show you care about someone is to tell someone that you care. The thing is words are cheap so they are easy to use but being cheap they are not worth much. Despite the fact that they are not worth much they are essential. You can show someone you care by doing crazy things but if you never tell them how much you care they will miss it. So make sure you tell people you care about them but never think that this is sufficient. Words are necessary but not sufficient to show you care about somone.

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Alpha and Beta Are Different but Equal

I am sorry I have not posted in awhile. I was unexpectedly away from my internet connection. I will hopefully be able to continue to post regularly now.
I want to use this post go on the record as saying I do not have an opinion as to whether it is better to be an alpha or a beta. (Being on omega though is probably not good). There are advantages and disadvantages to both being an alpha or a beta. Different people are looking for different things in sexual relationships and understanding what you are looking for is essential to determine whether you want to act like on alpha or a beta. It is also crucial to know the differences to help look for the correct mate. Based on your preferences you can keep or change your behavior and you can also look in specific places for your lover. I may sound at times like I am advocating for either alphas or betas but what I am really trying to do is give you the best information if you do want to change or the best information for looking for the correct mate.




Monday, April 2, 2007

Alpha Male Case Study


As I previously stated there is really a spectrum with alphas at one end omegas at the other and betas in the middle. Most people do not fit neatly into one category. It is instructive to look at examples of people that do fit neatly into one category.

One example of a pure alpha male is John Tucker from the movie John Tucker Must Die. Here are his characteristics: he is the type of guy every women wants to be with and every guy wants to be. He is rich, attractive, and a basketball star. He often dates more than one women at once and no woman ever turns him down.

Some girls who were wronged by him want to get revenge on him. These girls first try telling everyone he has herpes but then he turns this around and becomes a hero for opening people’s minds to education on STDs. Then the girls try to give him hormones so that he will act more feminine. It then becomes the vogue thing for guys to show their feelings. He even gets caught wearing women’s underwear and then it becomes in fashion for every guy to wear women’s lingerie. He has everything an alpha has: if something goes wrong he makes it fashionable, he is unstoppable.

The thing that does eventually break John Tucker is he falls in love like a beta. The thing that will break an alpha is for them to start feeling. They do not know what to do with the feelings because they are not used to them.