Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Overview - General Theory of Relationships

There are three types of people in this world. Alphas, betas, and omegas.

Alphas are the type of people who can get laid whenever they want. If they go out they attract people. These people are attractive and they know it.

Betas have many attractive attributes but they are not alphas so they can not get someone whenever they want. Betas often just lack some skill making it harder for them to meet people or advance relationships into being romantic.

Omegas lack a lot of things and find it hard to ever get into a relationship.

Of course there are not really alphas, betas, and omegas. Really people fall somewhere in a range where alphas are at one end omegas are at another and betas are in the middle.

So a pure alpha is a 10 a pure beta a 5 and a pure gamma is a 0. Most people fall somewhere in between but I will use the alpha/beta/gamma notation for ease.

The general characteristics of the groups are as follows:

Alphas are not good at staying in relationships. They always know that they can get their next “meal” by simply going out and meeting someone new so they have little incentive to stay in a relationship if things are not perfect.

Betas get good at staying in relationships. They are not sure where there next “meal” is coming from. Therefore once a beta finds someone they want to make sure they hold on to what they have so that they can make sure they can continue to have sexual gratification.

Omegas are not good at getting into relationships. If they find someone they do not have enough good characteristics to keep the other party interested.

This is the basics of the theory. I will be developing the theory more in future posts.
Other future posts will be case studies so that you can see how this plays out in the real world.

The reason this matters because it effects who you are attracted to and what type of relationship you end up in. If you are unhappy with the relationships you are in then you need to start recognizing who you are and what you expect. Then you can look for the people who will give you what you desire.

If you would like personal relationship advice based on this theory email relationshipguru18@gmail.com. Comments and criticisms for the theory are also welcome.

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